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Tuesday, 23 January 2018

IF YOU WANT TO PLEASE EVERYBODY, YOU WILL END UP NOT PLEASING ANYBODY

In life we will come in contact with several people and most of the times we will have to learn from them, either directly or indirectly but in all, there will always be a lesson to learn and in the process of learning you will get different suggestions from those around you. If you're not careful their suggestions will get you confused and your life will not be stable.

Inasmuch as it is good you learn from people and things around you, you must also be careful not to be carried away by their own selfish suggestion or even a suggestion that they feel is the best for you, we must learn to be discrete in whatever decision we want to take. You're too important to be limited by people's opinion about your own life, your life is important more than anything else. Their knowledge about you is limited, you know yourself more than any other person, you can't solely depend on what they feel about you or what they think about you.

So many even go as far as trying to please everybody around them, pleasing human isn't even possible let alone pleasing everyone. If you want to please everybody, you will always end up not pleasing anybody, we're too complex to be pleased, we're too difficult to understand let alone knowing all what we desire.
 
At the time of advice you will have to be careful and discrete about the advice that you receive, never allow theirs to becloud your own sense of reasoning. People will always come with what they feel about you, never try to please any of them, by trying to please you will end up not pleasing everyone and likely hurt yourself at the end.

To wrap it up, in all you do, never try to please everybody. Only try to do the right things and get the desired result.

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